Reunion Dinner and Lunar New Year
Ever since, started
working in this public transport industry; I was so worry that, how on earth, that
I am going to manage my first reunion dinner and also the 1st day of
the Chinese Lunar New Year (CNY).
In Woodlands Regional
Interchange (WRI), my work place; there are some 650 BC, and majority of them are Chinese
ethnic origin. I cherish and value this time honour Chinese tradition; I “kaisu-ed”
and submitted my annual leave months before the actual date for year 2015.
The supervisor reply
was, do not submit now, just let me have your work ID and write the dates that,
I intend to apply. He will submit my name and it will be balloted,
2 weeks before the 1st day of CNY. My Parents, close
relatives and family are all waiting for the result of the said coming ballot.
I was very
fortunate and blessed to get 2 days of annual leave approved for 1st
and 2nd day of Chinese New Year.
And I quickly called
the rostering supervisor to grant me permission to work AM shift on the eve of
the CNY so that, right after work, I can go to the market to all the necessary
stuff to prepare a steamboat reunion dinner for my clan.
During the evening
reunion dinner, I announced to the clan that, please be prepare that, for next
year, I may not be that lucky and if that is so, I most probably could not join
them for the celebration and in advance (1 year ahead), I apologized to all of
them present that evening.
The company did do
something good to compensate for those, whom are officially working throughout the eve and till the 2nd
day of CNY. Beside the double pay rate, for working on the 1st
and 2nd day of CNY; the company pays each BC another extra 3 days of
work into our pay check for this festive period. Indeed is a big angpow to some FW colleagues. “xie
xie gong si and Huat Ah”.
Qing Ming
My parent’s ancestor
came from China (Hui Zhou, Guangdong); I am the 4th generation son in my Huang’s family lineage.
Since the
ancestor tombs are located in Malaysia; somewhere near Lumut (Pangkor Island),
it is a 650km drive to get there from Singapore. It requires a minimum two day
trip to go and come back. So I am sadden that, for this year, I could not make
it for Qing Ming as I did not intend to subject my family in tenterhook of
waiting for my last minute confirmation on annual leave approval again.
Luckily, my elder
brother, aged 55, is still fit and capable to drive such a long journey by
himself with his car; he told me, not to worry about it; he will do the task to
honour the family Chinese tradition of fulfilling our filial
piety duty.
If you are aspiring to
join this public transport service industry; and if you are a Chinese, (or
perhaps other races too), you need to prepare yourself mentally to make some concession, sacrifices and compromises to your traditional believes, customs and practices. Be ready
to let it go without resentment in your heart.
As you can see, annual
leave application for these 2 major Chinese traditions is not an entitlement
per se.
Only, If you have positive annual leave balance; you can submit your leave application and the preference dates; and a shot in the arm to be balloted.
and, If you do not have any positive annual leave balance outstanding;
I guess, you just have to quietly stand
down from this balloting process and be at ease with yourself.
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